Here is my reasoning behind the Kate debate. She is a mother of 8 kids. I completely understand that she is in fact wanting to have a career in the public eye. I do not judge her for that. What I have a problem with is that for her to do this, she is leaving her children in the care of nannies.
Yes, women who go to fight overseas also have to leave their children. But it is not in the same way. I understand she has to make money to support her children, but why does she have to choose to do something that takes her so far away from her children. the main problem is, these children have had the worst yer of their entire lives. If this hadn't happened and Kate was on DWTS, there would be no problem. The children are going through the loss of having the father around all the time and now they have to deal with their mother not being around. They are feeling abandoned and no matter what a mother's profession if, your children come first. This is the time the children need stability the most. If your children feel like you are never around and you don't spend any time with them, then something is wrong! To compare Kate to a woman in the military is astounding!
Kate is a woman who is learning to raise a family on her own. I get that, but she doesn't need to leave her family all the time to accomplish it. If she wants a Hollywood career, maybe she should move her children to be with her. They are the reason she ever became famous to begin with! If she would have never have had them, there would be no Kate. Only my opinion.
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I'm sorry - but anyone who is sitting here defending Kate - the celebuwhore - you've got serious issues. It's obvious that her children are not her priority. It's not Jon's either.
Really people, if her kids were important to her she would move them to California. Instead of being away from them 3-4 days a week. DWTS is not the only option Kate had, but it was the best one to keep her name upront. And to say she has 8 kids to feed and this is the only way she can do it, Bull Sh!t! Plenty of people raise 8 or more kids with out media whoring. I could care less that she loves to whore herself out to the media, but when she does it in expense of her children or worse whore out her children to the media, she loses any sympathy I ever would have had for the women.
JJ
Why should she be in the public eye? She has no talent or skills at all to offer anyone.Reality shows creat these freaks then we are stuck with them, I'm so sick of it.People who study acting, singing and art cant find work but these assholes can.
after 8 kids, I think we could call it dancing with the scars.
Sometimes Divorce decrees order both parties from moving the children to a different county, city, country etc... It could be written in her divorce decree that the kids primary residence must be in _____ county. The only way that can be changed if both parties agree to a modification. Also, it is not in the best interest of the children to move and transfer schools in the middle of the year.
Yes, she sucks, but obviously there is more here than meets the eye.
GB, why do you care about a 35 year old mom? She's not news. Those kids have a much better life than a lot of children in this county. I would persecute dead beat dads and moms before I persecute a mom, who has earned most of her adult income through a television series. How many celebrities make an earning exploiting their home life? It's a prerequiste now. And, no one will say shit about a daddy leaving the home for 2 weeks to work. The real question is since Mommy Kate has to work for 2 weeks, where is Jon? He should be there for those kids, since Kate is bringing in the income. Kate's a bitch, but she will work to provide for those kids. That's apparent.
Ha, as if she is doing this for the kids. She's nasty piece of work as anyone who ever met her knows.
I agree with GB completely. Plus, isn't this woman getting thousands of dollars/mth from John (I can't stand him either, though) in child support? I'm sure that with that and a normal job, she could raise them. My parents and granparents were raised with 10-16 siblings each and their parents did it without DWTS. I get so annoyed with stars acting like it actually takes millions of dollars to survive...I'm pretty sure she could do it on just $100k/yr. I agree that the point is that she needs to find something that allows her to be with the kids or move them to be with her. Also to the people comparing this to GB not coming out--I don't even see how the two compare. This is about KIDS.
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