The Price Of Being Married in Hollywood

No matter where you live, Hollywood, New York or in the middle of bum fuck nowhere, it's hard to maintain a healthy marriage.  In a business that is full of fakes and back stabbers that are only looking out for themselves and their own careers, it's even harder to find true love.

The sad part is that working in Hollywood can make you very insecure if you do not have a good sense of self.  There is always someone younger, someone hotter waiting around the corner for your job and your man/woman.  Everyone wants a piece of fame it seems and it's a well known fact.  But celebrities still seem to think with their crotch and less with their brains.

Any celeb will tell you that when guys and gals throw themselves at them, it is annoying.  But what they don't tell you is that they like it.  I mean can you imagine being able to walk down the street and and fans just throwing themselves at you?  That is what gets to a lot of guys, most of whom were not that popular in high school.  It ALL comes back to high school.

The theater geeks who once couldn't get girls to look at them now have women throwing themselves at them.  I am in no way just picking on men, Brad broke Jenn's heart to go and play house with Angelina.  Jesse James supposedly did the same to his lovely wife Sandy.  But women are not off the hook.  Meg Ryan left a cheating Dennis Quaid for a chance with Russell Crowe that amounted to her ending up alone and looking like a plastic doll.

Is it even possible to have a happy marriage at all, let alone in Hollywood?  With every move of your relationship scrutinized in the media, to spending months apart at a time, it's almost difficult.  It all comes down to trust, something that is hard to have at all with anyone.  But the sad part is, most Hollywood marriages that have lasted awhile usually have secret meanings behind it.  Most women are so in love with the men that they will let them get away with anything to stay in the life that they have come accustomed to.  Some celebs even think that it is their right to be able to have sex with anyone, get whatever they want.  It's the celebrity way, isn't it?

It's people like that that give the decent celebs a bad name.  And while the honest celebs try to marry the perfect person, you have people that will do anything to get fame and if that means being the whore to seduce your other half, so be it.  In the end, everyone is looking for one thing, whether they admit it or not.  Everyone just wants someone to love, and someone that loves them back.  Once the fame is over and the scripts stop coming, you will realize that the fans you used to pork behind your loved ones back aren't going to be there with you when are left old and alone.

I can't even get a boyfriend that can keep his hands off women.  Love is a Battlefield, but in Hollywood it's a freakin war zone.