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Thursday, June 24, 2010

Dear Gossip Boy

Dear Gossip Boy,
I enjoy your blog in general but I have a question for you. Why is there such a double standard in general when it comes to male bisexuality as opposed to female bisexuality. Anna Paquin, Angelina Jolie and others have talked pretty openly about being bisexual to the point that it has gotten boring, but whenever there is talk of a man who has had sex with other men there is an automatic assumption that he is gay and whatever hetero relationships he has are beards. Although there are some obvious cases where stars are 100% homosexual and bearding themselves isn't their room for the assumptions of such things as swingers, bisexuality, open marraige in Hollywood which after all is supposed to be a community of artists ( usually con-artists I admit it) . 
Sincerely
Lala
You make me wanna Lala,
I think overall that the talk of who is gay and who isn't has become boring.  Celebrities coming out have increased with the new generation of liberal stars, though the women get an easier pass.  Female bisexuality is a lot more forgiving in the eyes of people.  Mainly because it's every straight mans dream and in case you haven't noticed, there are more girl on girl scenes than guy on guy.  Women don't lose credit it seems whereas men seem to think that they lose their masculinity.  I am not ashamed of being gay, but I am ashamed of the stereotype that people have of gays and it leads me to not want to be associated with that stereotype.  


GB - 
We're worried about you. You haven't posted in 6 days. If you are trapped under a major appliance or need bail money, please let us know, and we'll send help. Love, BG
Blind Gossip,
Your letter made me smile so I thought I would share it. Hope you don't mind, but you have been added to the phone tree for when I need bail money....again. 
 
Dear Gossip Boy, 
Just wanna say I adore you and I visit your site about 18 times a day.
Now something I've always been curious about. How does the professional process of 'having a beard/fauxmance' work? Is there a sit-down with contracts, or when the couple is just doing it for press - do they ever actually fool around in real life? Could you explain this to me. 
Love and kisses to you and my fav fashion spittalker MB
Emma 
Emma,
It's actually quite formal and PR handles most of it.  And yes they do sometimes fool around in real life, but usually with the help of loneliness and a bottle of Jack.  I believe I wrote something on the levels of bearding.
Dear GB
Old news, BUT...is there any chance that Macbeth just genuinely wants Romeo back, rather than "riding the wave?"  I always hope that there's SOMEONE who isn't just a fame hungry douche in that place.  Which leads me to my next question...do you know  of anyone, anyone at all in HW, who is as nice as they claim to be?  No pretending, no spin, just a genuinely nice person who does what they do because they enjoy it?
Anyway, keep up the good work!
<3 Antinous

Antinous,
Macbeth and Romeo have a long history of tortured love.  These two are soul mates in my opinion, but the timing isn't always right.  As for real people on HW, there are a couple who are genuine, but sadly one of them just retired.

Hi GB,
If Rainbow Dark is who I think he is, then I guess Sunshine decided to break up with him this week (and probably keep hooking up with her foreign lover, am I right?). Hopefully you will answer this in "Dear GB".
Thanks, Nini
Nini,
Nini,
Sunshine and RD have come to an agreement, but if you think it had to do with Sunshine, you are wrong.  I hear the RD has been chasing a friend of ours with the excuse that he realizes that he loves him.  I think Sunshine got kicked out on her ass.  And who said they broke up this week? 
GB,
Can you shed any light on the reason Jared has become such a taboo topic on Ted's site? Is he simply too boring when Danneel gives him plenty of amo about her and Jensen? The other day it seemed like he was suggesting he knew something but just wouldn't say, and he never used to have any problem gossiping about him. I'm starting to get whiplash from all of the times he has changed his tune! Or is he just messing with us? Seems to be what he does best...
BC

BC,
Since Jared and Gen married, Jared has been way below the radar while his bestie Jensen and Danneel have been anything but.  The ones who love the attention are getting it while the others are off hiding in seclusion.  Kinda like people who make you look in one direction while the action is going on in the other....get it?

Dear GossipBoy,
Did you release the major scoop you hinted at on twitter last week? Was it the reveal of Alex O'Laughlin's blind in last week's Dear GossipBoy? Love your site, thanks for everything you do for us fans!
Tory

Tory,
The major scoop wasn't released because the facts were nearly impossible to check, but it is a humdinger.  The reveal was my way of making it up to ya.

Dear GB,
Please, Please Please tell me about Reese and Jake's break-up! Is it true that he was cheating on her the whole time and she caught him?
Lori Anne

Lori,
Remember the Survivor controversy when one of the contestants was thought to be hooking up with another contestant but he was just a cover for her hooking up with the camera man that followed them?  And our sweet, sexy Jake is anything but the cheater.

Gossip Boy,
We have missed you and hope that all is well.  I dunno if there will be a dear gb but I had to ask what you thought about Austin Nichols and Sophia Bush joining Twitter to raise money and/or get attention.  Don't they seem a little bit comical in their attempts to be big names?
Scottie

Scottie,
I sure that whoever told them to join Twitter had convinced them that they would have fun with it.  But you can promise that these two are all about the attention these days. Their photos ops are brilliantly staged and edited. With bffs like Danneel Harris and Jake Gyllenhaal, can you blame them?  Wonder how much longer until they convince Jakey to start tweeting?

37 comments:

Anonymous said...

... that Alex O'Laughlin is such a looker...yummmi...
..i want to thank u GB in your attempts to keep us happy with ur busy schedule..sometimes thanks isn't enough.. ;)

Anonymous said...

Hi, GB. I loved your answers. I was missing Jay and Jen notes but you always give me some news, or not so news, about them. We missed you, GB. Kisses.

turbulentmouse said...

Haha

Thanks for including those last two pictures. Made me LOL at my desk.

Anonymous said...

DO celebs really "twitter" or facebook or myspace or what ever the trenndy app is or do they just have an asst or PR flunkie do it for them. I mean Demi Moore doesnt work and all her kids are grown so she doesnt have anything else to do. But I am sure other stars are too busy or too dumb to handle it.

Anonymous said...

Speaking of MacBeth...wasnt he in england partying with Matthew Morrison...and wasnt this the same time GB was "missing"...hmmmmm.

Anonymous said...

On the BI-SEX thing. This is just my own life experience so your milage may vary.

The reason that most of the bi's coming out are chix is because chix are usually the only ones who identify as BI.

I know a lot (lol A LOT) of bi guys but none of them ID as BI. They are either "straight" or "gay" but do the occassional nookie with the other sex then go back to being what ever. Because its mostly about the sex and doubtful they would ever have a "relationship".

Most guys who have claimed to be "bi" seem to be in transitional phase in their acceptence of their sexuality. These are the only type of guys I have ever heard claim to be "BI". Regardless of behavior its just not something I have heard guys embrace.

Finally, in my own experience, "bi" guys tend to be the biggest sluts. They will get their pleasure wherever they can.

The bisexual label seems to be for girls which is why you wont ever see males "coming out" like that.

Lucy B said...

You've been SO missed GB, so glad you are back! I'm sure you've been working hard but your faithful(ME!) are so happy your posting again. BTW - your claims of needing bail money in the future - again - do nothing to persuade me from thinking your Chase Crawford. KIDDING - I kid!
Don't ever disappear for so long again, please!
XOXO
Lucy B

entertainment crumb said...

I missed you, GB! Although, now I want to know what this major scoop was, or at least who it was about!

Anonymous said...

Where you been, GB? OFf trying to persuade a friend not to announce his faux engagement? Missed ya, glad you're back.

Anonymous said...

GB, Sunshine and RD broke up a while ago, but it just was "announced" this week, then? :)

Anonymous said...

Curious as to why Jen/Danneel would have to serve as distraction to take the focus away from Jared/Gen? Is it just to take the focus away from the Jen/Jared romance rumors. Any thoughts?

Anonymous said...

G.B. -
Will you re-post your "Levels of Bearding"? I missed that and would love to read that. Sounds like it could be very funny (or really sad).

A, just A said...

Hey nonnie, let me help you. Here's the link to the bearding article :-)

Does anybody really buy the act?

Anonymous said...

Yeah, in response to 1:20pm, the way you answered the question of Jensen & Danneel being a distraction, and asking us if we "...get it?", are you saying that Jared does have something to hide and that Jensen is willing to take the heat off of Jared and taking the brunt of Ted's remarks/comments? Is this taking the heat off Jared/Jensen's relationship? Interesting, Jensen is back up in Vancouver this week directing an episode. Not sure if Jared is up there yet though. I believe production starts June 30. The boys will be back in their element tucked away up there in Canada. Hope you keep us posted Gossip Boy. You know you have a lot of Supernatural fans that visit your site daily. Thanks

A, just A said...

Now... there's so much I'd like to say!

First of all, if GB's opinion is that Macbeth and Romeo are soulmates, then I'm going to like Macbeth a lot more from now on. It doesn't matter if I do in the end, but, man, I have enormous respect for the concept of "soulmates". I really do. I may refuse to believe in much... but "soulmates", I put my trust in.

Second is something I wanted to say before. Where I live, it is more accepted to be gay for men than it is for women. Yes, straight men like to see hot actresses getting it on on the tv. But real life is a whole different thing. It is not a country of Neanderthals, but it still makes people uncomfortable if a woman declares herself unavailable for men. Makes me sad and angry at the same time.

Third, uhm... Jake on Twitter? He'd have a million followers with a verified account. Not easy to communicate in that case, tho. All we fans could do in that case is leave our praises and wait for fun, maybe even thoughtful comments. Which sounds great, I know but... Among the most memorable things I picked from one of his recent interviews is his saying he doesn't like to say anything serious because he's "really full of crap" :-D I wonder if that'd be a reason for him not to join Twitter. Hmmm...

If you guys haven't seen that interview

here it is

If you don't laugh at least a hundred times with this one, you can sue me. :-)

Anonymous said...

Thanks A, just A said... for the link to the bearding post!

the real deal said...

Are MacBeth/Romeo and Rainbow dark and Justin Case the same couple? When did Matt Morrison travel to England and who else was there?

Anonymous said...

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/hwood_party_girl/b186651_chace_crawford_parties_in_london_post.html?utm_source=eonline&utm_medium=rssfeeds&utm_campaign=imdb_tv-movies

http://justjared.buzznet.com/2010/06/18/chace-crawford-is-a-london-lad/

http://www.celebuzz.com/chace-crawford-matthew-morrison-get-s216011/

Anonymous said...

i'm not sure but i think this is the point: Jensen is protecting Jared who is the one who needs to be protected right? that's why Sandra broke up with him, she said on FB that their break up was a blessing. Everything is very clear for me.

Jules said...

Hey, GB!

Would you tell us if the false information supplied to Billy Big Mouth relates to Jared and Jensen?

Thanks!!

A, just A said...

the real deal said...

Are MacBeth/Romeo and Rainbow dark and Justin Case the same couple? When did Matt Morrison travel to England and who else was there?


Uhm, I'm no expert but I'll do my best: Macbeth isn't Chace Crawford or Matthew Morrison. Romeo had a thing with CC -that is, Confused Charlie, of course ;-). Before that, Romeo was with Macbeth.

Anonymous said...

To anon at 9:25 pm:

Why do you think Jared needs protection?

Anonymous said...

to anon above, I think the theory is that jared may be bearding personal reasons as opposed to for publicity which is why he needs protecting & also why ted has stopped targeting him.

Anonymous said...

What do you mean "personal" reasons? Like grandma doesnt know he likes dick and will kill her if he doesnt fake a marriage?

Anonymous said...

yeah pretty much lol. not sure if it's actually the case but his parents looked pretty happy in the thousand wedding pics that were leaked. I mean something don't add up, if he is bearding then why are they so invisible? shouldn't he be showing everyone that he is married to a woman. unless just being married is good enough? personally I'm not sure if I believe he is being protected, ted might just not be talking cause he is kind of invisible.
I think GB just meant that the jensen/danneel public appearances makes ppl look at them and not whatever is going on with jared & jensen. JMO

Anonymous said...

nothing romantic is going on with Jensen and Jared, maybe is with jared and other one. You say jensen/danneel public appearances makes ppl look at them and not J2? are u serious? that appearnces just makes ppl look at the J2 story a lot more,specially fans who loves wincest so they could forget that the gay rumors probably comes from one of the J2. Good try by the way!

Anonymous said...

it makes sense to me if Jensen is protecting Jared, the more people thinks about J2 love story then it's safe Jared's real secret. It would explain why Jensen who is so private allowed to Danneel her adventures with Ted and gossip, now we got the real deal!

Anonymous said...

To anon 1:54 - so what do you think the real deal is?

Anonymous said...

To Anon 1:54 - so what do you think the real deal is?

Anonymous said...

to Anon 3:10 - u still dont get it?

Anonymous said...

To anon 3:21 - no - please tell me.

Anonymous said...

Interesting... Blind Gossip has responded to this Dear Gossip Boy, confirming that BG knows GB's real identity, and that they are "close enough that if he was trapped under a major appliance – or needed bail money – he’d call us".

http://blindgossip.com/?p=19471#comments - comment at 12:28

the real deal said...

Thanks A said A for the answer to my question. So Romeo is Chace Crawford = MacBeth is Matt Morrison.- Confused charlie, Rainbow dark, Justin Case and Sunshine are unknowns - but seems everyone is jumping on the Hayden C-Rachel B ship for RD and Sunshine. If HC is RD then who's Justin Case? And just my 2cents J2 have already pinged as gay & together to me.

BobNYC said...

Justin Case is thought to be Hunter Parrish (YUM!)

Anonymous said...

@ anonymous 9:25 PM, could you elaborate-whats FB? i'm intruged about what Sandra has said about Jared.

Anonymous said...

FB is Facebook!

Anonymous said...

ah ok lol sorry dont use facebook i know everyone has one but i tend to avoid it thanks for the info. i'm surprised she would post that on facebook-more surprised to see hundreds of photos of his wedding online more tho.